5 Tips To Help Your Teen Get Out Of His Virtual World!

Teens are happier with their online lives than they are with their real life! The reason is the freedom they enjoy which lets them be the person they want to be and the escape they have to quit the life with just an exit button! The moment they feel the fun missing, they simply click cancel and they are out of the complete mess!

BERLIN, GERMANY - FEBRUARY 11:  A student uses an Apple iPhone smartphone at the Friedensburg Oberschule (Friedensburg high school) during the tenth annual Safer Internet Day (SID) on February 11, 2014 in Berlin, Germany. Safer Internet Day (SID) is held internationally to promote safer and more responsible use of online technology and mobile phones, particularly amongst younger people.  (Photo by Adam Berry/Getty Images)
BERLIN, GERMANY – FEBRUARY 11: A student uses an Apple iPhone smartphone at the Friedensburg Oberschule (Friedensburg high school) during the tenth annual Safer Internet Day (SID) on February 11, 2014 in Berlin, Germany. Safer Internet Day (SID) is held internationally to promote safer and more responsible use of online technology and mobile phones, particularly amongst younger people. (Photo by Adam Berry/Getty Images)

As a parent, what would you call this; a fantasy land of your teen? Teens who have this understanding are still the kids who either don’t understand the complications or they prioritize fun on the dangers! They need your assistance, actually. To help them get out of this virtual world, you can use the below given tips:

Limit Screen time:

The first smart step you can take is to limit their screen time to the best possible duration. This can be tough as today, even preschoolers have smartphones, and they portray their device as an ultimate source of the information. And if you try to take away their device even for some time, they will start rebelling or can come up with the lame reasons to keep using their devices. The best solution to cope with the situation is to use parental control app like FamilyTime that not only lets you monitor the device usage but renders the control to limit screen time too.

Family Dashboard

The parental app offers many features from tracking to remotely lock the phone. This app is also available on iTunes and Google Play. You can take this digital route to set the limitations and take control.

Describe the difference between reality and fiction:

In the early stage, help your kids to be a hardheaded person. Tell them the difference between reality and fiction. Along with that, explain your teenager the consequences of staying in the fantasy world and discourage the behaviors they carry in the digital world so that they realize the standards and the core of both the real and the digital world! .

Spend time with them:

Make sure you spend time with your teens. Sit with them and talk about anything; their likes, dislikes, hobbies, routines, etc.

Teacher helping student

At the start, they may get reluctant to respond to your questions, but if you keep your tone friendlyrather than interrogative, they shall get into the conversation with all their heart.

Involve them in healthy activities

Get your teen involved in healthy activities of real life say gardening, book reading, playing games, etc. so that they start enjoying their lives in the real world as well!

Family Playing Tug Of War

Participate with them:

Take part in all your teen’s activities. Play games with them, accompany them while watching movies, have an interest in what they read and what they do. This will encourage their positive behavior and help you strengthen your bond with your teen. Resultantly, your teen will turn to the real world.

Take them with you in parties:

Let your teen commute in the real world and make friends. To help them do that, enlarge their social circle and take them to the parties so that they meet new people and share their thoughts with the like-minded people they pick from the crowd.

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Mrs. Hatland is a 30-something married, mom of 7 and the face behind the popular online publication, Motherhood Defined. Known as the Iowa Mom blogger by her local peers and “The Fairy Blogmother” worldwide. She has professional experience in working closely with clients on brand ambassadorships, client outreach services, content creation and creative social media advertising exposure.
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