The Kids Have Gone To Bed: Now It’s Your Time

The Kids Have Gone To Bed: Now It’s Your Time

There’s simply no getting around the fact that parenting can be a pretty full-on job. You’re forever checking that they have everything they need in order to be healthy, happy, and thrived. And with so much to take care of, it can feel like you have next to no time for yourself. However, this isn’t true: you’ve got that golden period, which is the period after the kids have gone to bed. Below, we show you how to make the most of this special time in the day.

Get Exercise

There are two things that go along with parenting: not having enough time to do what you need to do, and feeling stressed. After the kids have gone to bed, you can go a long way to remedying both of these issues by getting some exercise. You don’t need to go to the gym to make this work; there are plenty of pretty intense workout regimes that you can do from the comfort of your own home. Not only will you be making sure you’re kept fit and healthy, but you’ll also be upping your energy levels and getting rid of stress at the same time.

Escape to Another World

The last thing you want to be doing after the kids have gone to bed is dealing with all the issues that have been running through your mind all day. As such, why not escape to another world for a while? We’re living in the golden age of endless creative worlds. Whether that’s watching an anime show like God Eater, curling up to watch one of the year’s best films, or finally getting around to working your way through your reading list, you’ll feel revived and refreshed after temporarily living in another world. Tomorrow can wait; for now, enjoy yourself.

The Kids Have Gone To Bed: Now It’s Your Time

Chat With Your Partner

It can often feel like you don’t really have a partner; more of a colleague that shares the responsibility of raising your children. But remember: you love this person! After the kids have gone off to the land of nod, spent some time reconnecting with your loved one. It might not be as romantic as one of your memorable date nights, but it’s a good way to catch up with one another – but maybe keep the kids chat to a minimum for this night.

Catch up with Friends

And if you thought that it’d been awhile since you caught up with your partner, what about your friends? They’re becoming like strangers! Your smartphone is more than just an internet device; it’s also, you know, a telephone too! Give them a call and see what’s going on in their life. There’s no substitute for a long chat with an old friend!

Use Your Time

Whatever you do, make the most of this time of the day that belongs to you. Whether it’s catching up with your hobbies or making future plans, it’s important that you use the time wisely – you don’t know when you’ll next get a moment to yourself!

About the author
Mrs. Hatland is a 30-something married, mom of 7 and the face behind the popular online publication, Motherhood Defined. Known as the Iowa Mom blogger by her local peers and “The Fairy Blogmother” worldwide. She has professional experience in working closely with clients on brand ambassadorships, client outreach services, content creation and creative social media advertising exposure.